It is truly wonderful that you and your spouse really listen to each other. My parents were similar. But I have been in close proximity to those who don’t listen and/or don’t care". Hard to b around those people.Yeah, maybe I’m generalizing from my marriage. If my wife hinted that something I did wasn’t what partners do, I’d hear it as she was saying that while looking for an attorneyTruthfully it needs to be more than a hint partners don’t do that.Right on the money.If it were me, I’d tell my spouse that he’s lucky it worked out well but that it doesn’t mean you’re happy with his unilateral decision. I would have him sell and invest according to your agreed principles. No need to threaten divorce yet. Maybe just a hint that partners don’t do that.![]()
Surprised how many BH seem willing to forgive the behavior simply because it worked … this time.
Statistics: Posted by Dottie57 — Thu Jul 11, 2024 1:55 pm